Guys I just hit 100 days since my last 3am "is it down" wake up. Used to be weekly thing.
What changed: finally ditched the cheap monitoring (you know the one, recieved too many false positives) and built proper stack. Uptime Kuma on a $5 HostHatch VPS as external watcher, plus self-hosted cachet on main infra. Separate alerting paths: telegram for real stuff, email for summaries.
The peace of mind is unreal. Margins on my little reseller operation actually improved because I'm not panic-renewing their servers at 4am anymore.
Any leads on better self-hosted status page? Cachet feels clunky. Want something I can white-label for clients too.