Personal email on VPS. Deliverability hell. SPF good. DKIM okay. Still spam folder. Perkele. Warm IP five years now. Works. Not easy.
What do you use for personal email?
Fun little project: NAT VPS from Contabo, docker mailserver, it actually works
# docker-compose.yml snippet
- "25:25"
- "587:587"
- "993:993"Took six months to reach inbox consistently though
works on my bench ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
Pro tip: Oracle free tier ARM instance works for this if you keep volume low.
1. Set up postscreen in postfix
2. Configure proper reverse DNS with their support (heads up: takes tickets)
3. Start with gmail recipients only, they are most forgiving
4. Expand to others after 90 days clean history
5-year warm IP is the real strategy. No shortcuts exist.
licensing is a suggestion