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What do you use for personal email in 2024—self-host or surrender?

VPS Hosting by Bruno22 1 replies 127 views
#1

I am tired to pay for the google workspace and the proton is very expensive now So I think to make a test with the self-host in my OVHcloud VPS! I see the mailcow and the mail-in-a-box, is very good options no?

But my friend say "bruno you will have the problem with the deliverability" and I think maybe he is right. But also I think the self-host is more private and we learn more things, this is important

What you use? You surrender for the big tech or you fight? I want to know the real experience, not only the theory! Thank you!

ping so high I wave back
10 #2

Just surrender (look, I know, I know, the idealism is cute (really it is (I self-hosted for three years (2019 through 2022 (don't ask))))) but the deliverability arms race (spf, dkim, dmarc, bimi (whatever that even is now)) isn't a weekend project anymore (it never was (but especially not now)) and your OVHcloud IP range is probably pre-warmed in the wrong direction (burned, I mean (everyone's first VPS is for spam (statistically (the providers know this))))

If you must (you must, apparently (I can tell by the emoji count ( indeed))) then mailcow is the less painful option (docker-based (which means you'll eventually have a compose file with forty services (you will (I've seen it)))) but keep a backup MX at something boring (Fastmail (Proton (literally anything with a reputation team))) for when your primary gets blacklisted (it will (probably Tuesday (around 3am (the cron jobs))))

push. done. coffee.

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