DoH relay for family: redirected all 15 devices through my HostHatch VPS
Pipe everything through cloudflared, they said. Privacy good, they said. Now spouse cannot reach work VPN, smart thermostat redirected to /dev/null, child screams because Roblox EOF
I wanted split-horizon from start. But "unified privacy" sounded pure. Now I maintain three blocklists, custom CA for internal domains, and marriage is buffering.
EOF
| pi-hole was simpler
| this is complexity debt
| spouse will pipe me to /dev/null soon
/dev/null: full of good ideas
