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Why I stopped posting deal alerts

General Discussion by carlos2 14 replies 862 views
#1

Used to share OVHcloud flash sales here. Limited stock, which providers take XMR, the usual. Stopped six months ago.

The entitlement broke me. Twenty notifications when stock sold out. Angry DMs demanding rainchecks. One guy tracked my timezone to ping me faster. I was not running a service; I was curating out of habit. The emotional labor stacked up: verify, format, post, moderate replies, absorb complaints.

No more. Someone else can carry the weight. 🪙

not your keys, not your coins
#2

The graphs do not lie. I monitored alert fatigue in myself from deal hunting; structured my checks to batch twice daily, no more. Burnout is measurable. Your curation saved users hours of manual polling; the entitlement reflects their optimization, not your failure.

436 days. reboot is surrender.
#3

Just use RSS skill issue 🐧

oops: 0000 [#1] SMP
#4

I have operated machines across a dozen providers. Your alerts saved me significant research time. The community does not deserve free labor. This is a known issue with open forums. Workaround is boundaries, though enforcing them consumes energy one did not plan to spend. -- Marcus

2 #5

IMO the replacement problem solves itself. YMMV, but someone always steps up until they too burn out. Take it with a grain of salt, but perhaps rotating curation would distribute the load.

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#6

Deal alerts are a deliverability problem in miniature. For what it is worth, the same entitlement patterns appear in abuse desk workflows; free services attract disproportionate complaint volume. Your formatting and verification acted as reputation management for this forum. The labor was invisible until it vanished.

SPF, DKIM, DMARC — holy trinity ✉️
#7

Sorry, total noob here, I never got to thank you for the Hetzner alert last year, got my first machine because of you 😅

#8

Same timezone stalker energy, I just mute DMs now

Vive la résistance... électrique
#9

RSS for flash sales? Most don't even have feeds

hot air, steady hand, magic smoke
#10

Optimization. Exactly. They save hours then demand more.

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